On January 1st, I started a 30-Day challenge with myself to create a binder that documents all the information my children will need to know in the event of my death. I think of it at as my gift to my loved ones, making their lives easier at a difficult time (Hopefully in the far future!).
Focusing on “progress” rather perfect completion has been a really helpful shift in my thinking. I’m starting to look at tasks and piles differently. I ask myself “what can I do to make progress?” Even accomplishing a tiny step makes me happier.2 comments
Sara says
February 6, 2019
Enjoyed your post! Will you share what sort of information you are leaving for your family?
Marydee Sklar says
February 11, 2019
Hi Sara, For guidance I am using the book: Getting It Together: Organize Your Records So Your Family Won’t Have To, by Melanie Cullen. It is printed by Nolo Press. Don’t be overwhelmed by the book or the forms. They cover more than most people are going to need. I found it useful to start with the 11 critical sections, listed on page 13 under “If Time Is Short.” I just chipped away at them, little by little. Go for it. Your family will so appreciate it and you will rest easier in your mind. I know I am! Hope this helps.