I recently finished a group family class at a local school. We had been meeting for 7 weeks, sharing challenges, insights, and successes as we worked on improving their executive functions. It ...

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How Seeing My Time Changes Lives

An adult coaching client arrived the other day in a high state of anxiety and overwhelm. First we reviewed how the emotional control aspect of executive functioning dominates the brain. His anxiety ...

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Three Steps to Stop Being Overwhelmed

Are other people taking over all of your free time? That was a common theme of adults in my recent group classes. Coworkers, aging parents, children—all can take over your time. How ...

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Three Ways to Improve Time Management

This week there was an opinion piece in the New York Times (January 29, 2012) “Ritalin Gone Wrong” by Alan Sroufe, PhD. This article set off a flurry of concerns among professionals ...

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ADHD, Ritalin, and Executive Functions

What does losing weight have to do with executive functioning? As it turns out, lots. For me, executive functioning is all about understanding my brain’s needs so that I have maximum control ...

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Weight Loss & Executive Functioning

Planning is an executive functioning skill of the brain. It affects our ability to take the actions necessary for completing multi-step goals requiring future planning. It also affects our ability to do ...

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Inspiration for Executive Functioning: Mind Mapping

Organizing is an executive function skill of the brain that many people struggle with. In Seeing My Time, I ask  a question, “What things do you keep misplacing?” Once that list is ...

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Get Organized—Everything Needs a Home

My working memory is pretty awful. It is likely that a concussion on the playground way back in early elementary school is a big factor in this executive functioning deficit. Alas, what ...

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A Story of Executive Function: Hansel & Gretel and Working Memory

When I work with people who struggle with executive functioning deficits during Seeing My Time sessions, I am keenly aware of what they are asking of themselves. By working with me, they are ...

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The Courage to Change

Being a parent is hard work; kids don’t come with directions. You bring home that little bundle of joy and you are off on a 24/7 job that lasts for years and ...

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Advice for Exhausted Parents!

I can readily see the tempo of my life every morning when I sit down at my desk. If, like this morning, it is pretty messy, it means I have been pretty ...

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The Messy Desk

Our demanding world requires us to do many things in a day. There was a time when time management strategies included getting good at multitasking—doing more than one thing simultaneously. Just think ...

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Is Multitasking Worth It?

One of the reasons I love my work helping individuals and families with their executive functions is that I am often surprised and inspired by my client client’s responses to the prompts in ...

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An Inspiring 6th Grader

An underlying theme of Seeing What I Need to Do (The Sklar Process™) is the value, the importance, of setting goals. By setting goals you maximize your productivity and your potential to ...

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Keeping Track of Your Behavior to Reach Goals

Test anxiety freezes a student’s ability to use the executive functioning skills required to do well in testing situations. We know now that strong emotional feelings like anxiety interfere with our ability ...

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Anxiety and Test Taking Tips